Loving Yourself

It's amazing how much calmer and peaceful things get after a good masturbation session. The plateau period is one of peaceful, tranquil, dozing off into slumber. It would only take a good hour to two for me to hit the bed like a baby and be in deep sleep like never before. After I beat my meat, my problems seem to subside and my mind is taken to a place of absentmindedness and nihilistic tendency to collapse everything onto the floor and just stare at the ceiling. My release represents a release of tension. This tension was built up throughout the entire day and it finally gets released and I have relieved myself of this negative energy.

Making love to yourself has been called healthy, regular, normal, and habitual. I believe that masturbation is a clean form or releasing sexual tension and sexual frustration within oneself. However it tires out the body and the semen released is part of the sugar substances our bodies rely on. That is the breath of energy that we release when we ejaculate. Therefore our energy disappears and we head to sleep. This explains why men go to sleep after they finish having sex.

Zizek says that the only Real in Lacanian terms is achieved when there is an orgasm. So the only real moment that the subject-object evidences is at the moment of orgasm which only lasts a few seconds. This only real moment is euphoric, tantalizing, titillating, and simply amazing feeling that you wish would be prolonged and extended. But it happens so quick and it is so evanescent. However it is so gratifying and pleasuring. It is sensually inviting and orgasmic in itself!