This polarization effect is explained in terms of the need to stereotype and classify. Humans need to rationalize---to make sense of certain things they encounter on a regular, everyday basis. One cannot dispute so much information in their head therefore they resort to stock-in-trade, on hand, (ill)prepared stereotypes and preconceived notions as blueprints to match their visions and interacting subjects. Social scientist Herbert Gans says that humans have an abject need to classify. This need is done out of necessity in order to make sense of things, so they don't doubt. This reminds me of my OCD/compulsive/irrational/anger-wielding/controlling personality in which I seek answers for nearly everything. Personal insecurity of my whole self, personal confidence will plummet if I do not come to a final understanding or get an answer to a certain question. That is also a form of control. It's a form of perceived control in terms of one's personal locus of control. The internal factors and external factors (outside of my control) vary greatly, but because I want to discount the external factors I pretend that I have control over my entire world that I see through my eyes. However there are things that are beyond my control and lie beyond my horizon, yet I do not want to witness them because I don't want to feel insecure or open-ended. Open-endedness is a fear I have because I cannot close a certain case.
This is similar to being left hanging. When your best friend sticks his hand out for a high five and you don't want to give him a high five, he will say "What gives?! You left me hanging!" This is a sign of need for closure. The friend wants closure and personal reflection /reciprocation of your friendship's living form. It is a verification of friendship similar to a hug. If you don't give the other person a hug in return he will think you are no longer entertaining the friendship. This could cause huge ripples. Closure most often happens in forms of Goodbyes and Byes. Departures signify the most need for closure. Some people drift away and depart without drawing attention to themselves. They are covert in their actions to not demand or not need a goodbye to confirm a closure in communication. They don't require this as feverishly as others do. They pry and pry for an answer as to why you didn't return a call or why they were de-friended.
Any joke that makes race and ethnicity as well as gender (sensitive topics) more pronounced, is not beneficial to society because it perpetuates racism. It is a divisive effect that penetrates everyone's unconscious. It only builds upon people's stereotypes and microaggressions. These types of classificatory jokes are meant to elicit certain images and preconceptions of racial groups and then satirize these differences by calling the entire enmeshing a joke. Jokes are a way of paving over the racist notions and sweeping the dust under the rug. It is clear that jokes remain jokes. But some cynical people will dispute that jokes are a way for jokesters to rise above their jokes and use their jokes as a symbol/instrument of authority. In actuality they will become more meta and postmodern by stepping out of their concrete actions (E.g. they will tell a racist joke outright and then deny its racist tendencies because it is within the confines of a declared joke) and defending their outlandishly offensive statements with "It was just a joke, etc." This deflection of responsibility stems from their conception of being outside of concrete meaning. They use the excuse that everything to them is outside of them and therefore they do not claim responsibility to it because they do not impart the meaning to it as long as it is a proclaimed joke. Cynics believe that this way of life is cruel, insensitive. It does not encourage personal responsibility and being watchful over what people say. If you claim that you step outside of everything you do, you falsely believe that you step outside of those forthcoming responsibilities, good or bad. Mostly bad.
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